Navigating my way as a parent

When I played...

• Parents dropped you off and did not watch your matches
• You stayed at other people homes for neighbor island tournaments
• No one had private lessons
• The big event was States because you got a trip off island without your parents

Today...

• Parents are really involved and watch all your matches
• You stay in hotels or condos with your parents
• Everyone gets private lessons
• One of the big events is States, but your parents fly-in to watch you
• Another big event is Zonals, which cost your parents a lot of money and becomes your family vacation trip